Whereas Teddi Mellencamp could have feared the worst, Tamra Decide wasn’t prepared to let her go.
On the March 13 episode of their Two Ts in a Pod podcast, the perfect associates shared a touching second after Mellencamp, 43, opened up about combating migraines and psychological fog earlier than she was taken to the hospital for what her estranged husband, Edwin Arroyave, believed may very well be a “mind hemorrhage.”
After a CT scan, Mellencamp was identified with a number of mind tumors. As soon as she acquired the information, Decide, 57, recalled getting a textual content message from the previous Actual Housewives of Beverly Hills star.
Bryan Bedder/Bravo through Getty
“I do not know if it [was] simply me or I used to be within the group textual content, however you stated to me, ‘You all thought I used to be psychological, however really, I am on my deathbed,” Decide revealed, getting emotional. “And I bear in mind texting you again and stated, ‘No, you are not, as a result of for those who’re on yours, then I am on mine, as a result of I can not dwell with out you.”
On Feb. 12, Mellencamp introduced on Instagram that after coping with “extreme and debilitating complications” for weeks, medical doctors found that she had a number of mind tumors which have been rising for at the least six months.
On the time, she revealed that 4 of the tumors had been surgically eliminated and “the remaining smaller tumors will probably be handled through radiation at a later date.” After the process, three extra tumors had been present in Mellencamp’s mind and two extra tumors had been present in her lungs.
Gilbert Flores/Selection through Getty
Elsewhere within the podcast, Mellencamp opened up concerning the ache she was experiencing earlier than her prognosis and admitted that she’s lived “a few of my darkest, saddest days” since her prognosis.
“I used to be at a horse present. I bear in mind going to my buddy Nicole like, ‘I’ve the worst migraine I’ve ever had in my whole life.’ I bear in mind not having the ability to bear in mind tips on how to say sure phrases,” she recalled. “I began shaking actually dangerous and I did not know the place I used to be.”
Regardless of taking migraine treatment, her signs continued for days and worsened.
“I bear in mind being in such excessive ache. I might barely stroll. I could not see. I did not wanna do something,” she defined. “I actually did not know what to do as a result of every thing in my life is the other way up.”
Although she has a protracted battle forward, Mellencamp stated she’s “feeling actually constructive” and revealed she was beginning radiation on March 17 as effectively immunotherapy remedies for sooner or later each three weeks.
By no means miss a narrative — join PEOPLE’s free day by day e-newsletter to remain up-to-date on the perfect of what PEOPLE has to supply, from superstar information to forcing human curiosity tales.
Noting that her mind tumors are a results of her previous melanomas spreading, Mellencamp stated she regrets not doing higher at listening to her physique. She admitted that her complications had been current for six months earlier than searching for medical consideration.
“I want the second that I felt these complications, I want the second that I began not feeling like myself I might have gone to the physician and gotten checked,” she stated.